Would you erase painful memories if you could?

Note from Jennifer: This is something I think about all the time. Would I remove memories of the abuse from my childhood and my marriage or the memories of being raped if I could? Sometimes I think I would. Sometimes I think I'd rather leave those memories. I had never watched "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind" until my boyfriend made me watch it with him about a year ago. It made me think